Posts tagged Children
A parenting story...one I am actually nervous to share <3

Heal NOW.

So my children have been sick with the stomach flu since Sunday.

When we are sick there are less veils between us, less filters, opportunities to work through emotional baggage, and more time together <3

My youngest became very sad and began to speak of that one time when he was 3ish and I lost my absolute shit and in one angry moment grabbed all his pacifiers and threw them in the trash...no warning...no discussion...no choices....'and all just because I was crying a lot that day for my nuki'...

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Happy Parents Equals Happy Children

Talking about a family with divorced parents..got my kids feeling strange...so..

I said..'don't worry that will never happen to us, I love dad more than I love you guys.'

Stunned silence and then bursting laughter and then sweet smiles all around the table.

'He came first into my heart, he is why you guys ever came into being in my body. You guys are going to fly off into your most amazing lives and your dad and I will be sitting across the table..madly..deeply in love, going..we did GOOD and frolicking into the sunset <3'

Putting my kids first has never been an option. 

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