When I speak about emotional patterns it can be incredibly triggering because even though I am speaking about a PATTERN most minds will take it personally.
Why? Because the patterns I speak of are alive and well in ALL of us.
One such pattern is the Bully/Victim Pattern..it is running within each individual human being and between us all as well.
It is intense because most often...we are talking 98% or more of the time it is running on auto pilot as a habitual pattern and when a habitual pattern gets light shone on it...it snarls like an angry beast and defends itself, determined to win and stay in place as the unconscious pattern that it is.
Becoming conscious of a habitual pattern can be very painful because we become aware of the collateral damage the pattern is running within us and in our lives. And this is a pivotal moment.Read More